True story: I married a crazy person, but didn’t really realize it until last spring. At the end of March ’09 Miss Famous and I got the heck out so that I could get far away from his emotionally abusive ways and stayed with my parents for a few months. In September, Her Famousness and I moved to a city about an hour away from my parents and I started a new job. My divorce from the crazy Mr. X was finalized in December and this month I started a divorce recovery class/support group. Miss Famous and I are still getting used to living in our new city, mainly because I became a bit of a hermit after we moved here, so the place I know best is my own house, but I am starting to feel inklings of wanting more social in my life. I just found out last weekend that X is getting married in June, and also that his “official” relationship with Version 2.o started a lot sooner than I had thought (they moved across the country together in July and were shacked up from that point on), so I’m kind of dealing with that at the moment.
All in all, I’m making progress, slow though it may be. I love the ALI community, as I became acquainted with the infertility beast back when I was married and discovered what an amazing group of people make up that corner of the blogosphere. Blogging has definitely been therapy for me, mostly because of the fabulous people I’ve met here in cyberland.